Carmine Conforti
Coaching for People in the Service Industry
My approach is about creative and agile growth, adapting uniquely to you and your team. I also work directly with individuals seeking personal or professional development, independently from their workplace or position.
I believe the most powerful solutions, and truly good working days, emerge from within each of us. They are shaped by the language we share and our core values, particularly as we see service – in all its forms – as a powerful tool for personal and collective growth.
To support this, I utilize effective methodologies such as Non-Violent Communication (NVC) for clearer understanding, Transactional Analysis (TA) for insight into interpersonal dynamics, and Positive Psychology to build on strengths and well-being. Crucially, presence and mindfulness are the glue that holds these practices together, enhancing awareness and connection throughout our work.
Together, we'll pinpoint and define the precise goals that perfectly suit your current situation and working environment. From there, we'll map out the clear, actionable steps to achieve them. For both individuals and teams, success relies on three key pillars: a united purpose, strong accountability, and the determination to navigate any challenges that arise.
I believe personal growth can be genuinely rewarding when approached at the right pace. Just like in a well-planned training session, we'll build momentum step-by-step.
We'll celebrate every positive stride and openly review what didn't work, learning and adjusting to ensure your continued success. Ultimately, you'll gain the mastery and method to independently unleash your full potential and truly flourish.
What coaching helps to achieve
(the shift itself is up to you!)
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find clarity on an issue
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gain purpose
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become more self-aware
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set meaningful and challenging goals
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explore way forward to achieving success
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set deadlines and commitments
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challenge limiting thought pattern
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change direction away from habitual behaviour
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understand your motivation better
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and so much more !
How can I serve you ?
45 minuti
from 30 euro
Book a free consultation 15/25 mins circa per telephone
Want to learn more about how I can help transform your life? Contact me today to book a free consultation.
Animas and transformational coaching
Animas Diploma is internationally accredited by three leading professional associations, the ICF, the Association for Coaching, and the EMCC.
What is Transformational Coaching?
Transformational Coaching is the process of working with an individual to create a major change in their personal or professional life. It goes beyond the surface and digs deeper to discover and change the limiting thoughts, emotions, and behaviors that keep a person stuck.
The happiness of your life depends on the quality of your thoughts
Marcus Aurelius
The secret of getting ahead is getting started
Mark Twain
It doesn't matter how slowly you go as long as you keep going
Confucius
About Me
you asked for it!
210 seconds of TORTURE!!!
My Journey: From Challenge to Purpose
My path has always been driven by a desire to explore. Since 1997, I've built a life working in gastronomy across different countries, immersing myself in diverse cultures and languages. This journey, while incredibly enriching, came with its share of triumphs and immense challenges.
I've stood shoulder-to-shoulder with incredible teams, experiencing the unique pride of collective effort. Yet, it wasn't always easy. I often prioritized team needs over my own, extending beyond my duties, only to find myself overloaded, making mistakes, and struggling to ask for help. I witnessed similar struggles in colleagues – the frustration of unheard ideas, the lack of space for constructive dialogue, and the absence of preventative support. Over time, I saw panic attacks, stress, and abusive language become alarmingly normalized in the industry.
For years, I hid my own escalating struggles. Depression, substance abuse – particularly during my time in Berlin between 2010 and 2017 – became coping mechanisms for the intense pressure. It was a slow, silent escalation until burnout hit rock bottom. I no longer recognized myself. This turning point forced a desperate question: "I can't go on like this, but how do I change?"
The answer arrived when I finally committed to change. Stepping away from gastronomy, I found new perspectives through spiritual practice and volunteer work. It was a revelation: I rediscovered my deep love for the restaurant world – the human connection, the act of service, the passion for food and wine – but with a profoundly different, proactive mindset, free from the negativity that had once consumed me.
My Coaching Approach: Transforming Hospitality
My discovery of coaching in May 2018, specifically through the Animas Centre for Coaching, was a revelation. It offered the concrete tools and language I had always sought for personal and professional growth. This intensive training allowed me to develop a deeper self-awareness and hone powerful techniques to guide others.
My mission is to leverage this expertise to transform the working environment within restaurants, bars, and hotels. Drawing from my deep understanding of the industry's unique demands, I provide coaching that addresses team dynamics, individual well-being, and effective communication. My own journey stands as a testament to the power of transformation, offering both inspiration for positive change and a preventative framework for navigating industry challenges. I am dedicated to helping individuals and teams within hospitality not just survive, but truly flourish.